The Great Unborn Wall

Signs of Abortion Kryptonite in Women

These signs reflect the internal struggles a woman might face, often pointing to unresolved pain or emotions:

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1. Unexplained Sadness: Periods of deep sorrow or crying without an apparent cause.

2. Feelings of Emptiness: A persistent sense of something missing in life.

3. Shame or Guilt: Internal dialogue questioning her worth or replaying the decision repeatedly.

4. Difficulty Bonding: Struggles to form emotional connections, particularly with children or partners.

5. Emotional Numbness: A detachment from emotions or feeling "shut down" to protect herself.

6. Avoidance Behaviours: Actively avoiding babies, pregnant women, or conversations about motherhood.

7. Low Self-Esteem: Questioning her value as a woman or feeling unworthy of love and forgiveness.

8. Anger and Irritability: Sudden outbursts of frustration or anger directed at herself or others.

9. Depression or Anxiety: Periods of hopelessness, worry, or feelings of being overwhelmed.

10. Trouble with Sleep: Nightmares or insomnia tied to unresolved thoughts about the abortion.

 

Symptoms of Abortion Kryptonite in Women

These symptoms may manifest physically, emotionally, or spiritually, revealing the deeper impact of unresolved feelings:

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1. Physical Symptoms: Headaches, fatigue, or stomach issues linked to suppressed stress or grief.

2. Unexplained Tears: Crying unexpectedly during specific moments or anniversaries.

3. Triggers of Loss: Distress upon seeing baby-related items, such as toys, strollers, or maternity clothes.

4. Self-Criticism: Constantly replaying the decision and questioning her judgement or morality.

5. Overcompensating: Overworking or overcommitting to avoid confronting unresolved feelings.

6. Spiritual Struggles: Feeling disconnected from faith, questioning her relationship with God, or avoiding spiritual practices.

7. Body Image Issues: Struggles with weight, body image, or feeling disconnected from her physical self.

8. Hypervigilance: Being overly sensitive to criticism, especially about womanhood or motherhood.

9. Addiction or Coping Mechanisms: Increased reliance on substances, food, or distractions to numb the pain.

10. Difficulty Celebrating Life Events: A sense of guilt or sadness during birthdays, baby showers, or family milestones.

 

Situations That Can Trigger Abortion Kryptonite

Certain moments, environments, or experiences can unexpectedly stir Her Abortion Kryptonite, causing women to relive emotions or confront unresolved grief:

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Personal Milestones and Memories

1. Seeing the due date or anniversary of the abortion on the calendar.

2. Hearing a baby cry or seeing a child the same age as the unborn child would have been.

3. Passing by hospitals, clinics, or locations tied to the abortion experience.

4. Remembering the circumstances surrounding the decision, like a specific relationship or time of life.

 

Interactions with Others

1. Conversations about motherhood, pregnancy, or abortion.

2. Being asked directly or indirectly, “Do you have children?”

3. Witnessing friends or family members announce pregnancies or have children.

4. Receiving criticism or judgement, whether real or perceived, from others about the decision.

 

Cultural or Media Influences

1. Watching movies, TV shows, or ads featuring pregnancy, childbirth, or loss.

2. Encountering pro-life or pro-choice debates, particularly on social media or in the news.

 

Social Events and Gatherings

1. Baby showers, christenings, or children’s birthday parties.

2. Mother’s Day or other family-focused holidays.

 

Spiritual or Faith-Based Moments

1. Sermons or conversations in church that touch on forgiveness, sin, or abortion.

2. Struggling with the idea of a child in heaven or grappling with the concept of grace and redemption.

 

Daily Life and Random Encounters

1. Seeing a pregnant woman or a mother with a newborn in public.

2. Shopping trips where baby products or maternity items are prominently displayed.

3. Unintentionally overhearing conversations about pregnancies or children.

4. Encountering unexpected reminders, such as a song, scent, or place that ties to the experience.

 

How Triggers and Troubles Can Be Addressed

 

By recognising these signs, symptoms, and situations, women can begin to understand the influence of Her Abortion Kryptonite on their lives. While the pain is real and valid, the Four Healing Paths of The Unborn Mother—Acknowledgment, Admission and Apology, Atonement, and Acceptance—offer a powerful framework to navigate these triggers and find clarity, comfort, confirmation, and closure.