The Great Unborn Wall

What is The Great Unborn Wall?

The Great Unborn Wall is a unique space that allows fathers to recognise and honour the life of their unborn child. It’s a place where men can process their grief, find healing, and build a lasting tribute to their child.

How can The Great Unborn Wall help me heal?

The Great Unborn Wall offers a guided healing journey where you can acknowledge the loss, confront your emotions, seek forgiveness, and reconcile with God. It’s a way to release guilt and find peace by honouring your child’s memory.

What are the Four Healing Paths of The Unborn Father?

The Four Healing Paths are: Acknowledgment (recognising your child’s life), Admission (admitting your feelings and actions), Apology (seeking forgiveness and offering your sorrow), and Atonement (finding freedom and peace through God’s grace).

Do I need to be a Christian to participate?

While the healing journey is rooted in Christian faith, it’s open to anyone. Whether you follow a faith tradition or not, the Memorial Wall provides a space to heal and find peace.

How does the healing process work for men?

You’ll be guided through the Four Healing Paths, with each step allowing you to confront and heal from your emotions, whether it’s grief, guilt, or regret. The Great Unborn Wall offers a place to memorialise your unborn child and reconcile with your own heart.

 

Can I create a personal tribute to my child on the Great Unborn Wall?

Yes, you can. You’re encouraged to create a meaningful tribute by naming your child and adding personal details, photos, or words that reflect your feelings. It’s your way of honouring your child’s life and healing your heart.

What if I feel overwhelmed by Abortion Kryptonite?

The Great Unborn Wall is a place for all your emotions—nothing is too big or too small. You’re not alone in your feelings, and this process allows you to confront those emotions, release them, and find peace. God’s forgiveness is a key part of this healing journey.

What if I wasn’t involved in the decision to have an abortion?

Whether you were directly involved or not, your emotions are valid. Men often experience grief, guilt, and confusion, even if they were not part of the decision-making process. The Great Unborn Wall offers a space for you to grieve and heal.

What’s the importance of Apology in the healing process?

Apology is about taking responsibility for your role in the situation and offering a heartfelt expression of sorrow. It’s about reconciling with yourself, your unborn child, and God, and finding peace through genuine remorse.

How does Atonement bring healing for men?

Atonement is about accepting God’s grace and forgiveness, and it allows you to experience freedom from guilt and shame. It’s the final step that brings closure, so you can move forward without carrying the weight of the past.

Is this only for men who were involved in the abortion decision?

No, the Great Unborn Wall is for all fathers who have experienced the loss of an unborn child, regardless of whether they made the decision or not. This is a space for all men to honour their child’s life and heal their hearts.

How do I know if I’m ready to take part in this journey?

When you’re ready to face your emotions and take the first step towards healing, you’ll know. It’s okay if you’re unsure—take your time. The Memorial Wall is here for you, whenever you’re ready to begin.

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Can I still participate in The Great Unborn Wall if I feel disconnected or distant from my emotions?

Absolutely. Many men struggle to connect with their emotions, especially around grief. The Great Unborn Wall provides a safe space for you to start addressing those feelings, and it offers resources and support to help you process and heal, no matter where you are emotionally.

What if I don't have the words to express how I feel?

It’s okay if you don’t have the words. The Great Unborn Wall encourages you to share your heart in your own way, whether through a simple message, a photo, or even a symbol. The process of creating your tribute is about honouring your child’s life, no matter how you express it.

Can I find peace without fully understanding or resolving all of my emotions?

Yes, healing doesn’t mean having all the answers. It’s about taking the first step in acknowledging the loss and allowing God’s peace to fill the space of your grief. As you go through the Great Unborn Wall, you may not have all the answers, but peace and healing will come through faith and trust in God.

I didn’t feel like I had a choice in the abortion—how do I deal with that?

This is a common feeling, and it’s important to acknowledge that. While you may not have had a direct say, your feelings of grief, regret, or confusion are valid. The Great Unborn Wall is a place to heal from those emotions, find understanding, and begin the process of reconciliation with yourself and with God.

How do I know if my grief will ever truly heal?

Healing doesn’t mean forgetting—it means learning to carry your grief in a way that no longer causes pain. The Great Unborn Wall helps guide you through the journey of transforming grief into honour, creating a lasting tribute to your unborn child. It’s a process of restoration, not a destination.

Is it possible to find closure even if I didn’t have a strong relationship with my unborn child?

Yes, closure comes through recognising and honouring the child’s life, no matter how short or disconnected the relationship may feel. The Great Unborn Wall allows you to acknowledge that your child mattered, and that’s a powerful step towards healing.

What if I feel conflicted about using religious language or concepts in the healing process?

The healing journey respects where you are. While the Great Unborn Wall and the four healing paths of The Unborn Father  is rooted in Christian beliefs of forgiveness and grace, it’s open to anyone. If you feel conflicted, take your time to explore the process in a way that feels right for you. The goal is peace, not pressure.

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What if I’m feeling unsure about my faith or God’s role in this healing process?

It’s natural to have doubts, especially if your faith journey has been complicated. The Great Unborn Wall isn’t about forcing you into religion but about finding peace and healing through a personal relationship with God. If you're unsure, the process offers a gentle space for you to explore your beliefs and experience God’s love, grace, and forgiveness without pressure. Healing comes through openness, even when faith feels uncertain.

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What if I feel like I don’t have the right to grieve or remember my unborn child?

As a father, you have every right to grieve and remember your unborn child. Your feelings are valid, and your grief is a reflection of your love and your natural instinct to protect. The Great Unborn Wall offers a safe space for you to honour that bond, regardless of your role in the decision or circumstances surrounding the pregnancy. Your child’s life matters, and so does your journey of healing.

Can I later view, edit, add, or delete the information I enter in my Great Unborn Wall?

Yes, absolutely. Once you’ve completed all four healing paths, you’ll have access to a control panel where you can revisit, edit, and update any part of your Great Unborn Wall. This ensures that your tribute remains as personal and meaningful as you wish, allowing for continued reflection and healing.

 

Can I cancel at any stage?

Yes, you can. If you need to pause or cancel your journey at any point, simply go to your Account and Profile Settings, where you’ll have the option to manage your preferences. The process is completely flexible, and you can stop or resume at any time, depending on where you are in your healing journey.

How much does this service cost?

$99 Australian Dollars - One Time Payment for Life Time Membership. No Hidden Fees. No Contracts. Cancel Anytime.