The Great Unborn Wall

I’m Eugene Wynyard, father and founder of The Great Unborn Wall.

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My journey here was neither simple nor straightforward—it was forged in the crucible of personal heartbreak, soul-deep reflection, and an unshakable calling to transform pain into purpose.

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In 1995, during what felt like a steady and committed relationship, I was complicit in the decision to end the life of my unborn child through abortion. At the time, I believed the common narrative—a medical procedure, clinical and benign, with no lasting emotional or spiritual repercussions. What I didn’t realise was that the truth about abortion was more profound and devastating than I could have ever imagined.

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For the next two decades, the memories of that decision lay buried, untouched and forgotten. But in 2015, a single question—what I now call “The A-Bomb Question”—shattered the silence: “Have you ever been involved in an abortion?” That question detonated deep within me, unleashing a tidal wave of suppressed grief, remorse, and confusion. It felt as though a dormant bomb had gone off in my soul, forcing me to confront the truth I had long avoided.

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Through tears, pain, and prayer, I began to see abortion not as a sterile medical procedure but as the ending of a human life—a life that deserved love, honour, and remembrance. Overwhelmed by guilt and shame, I sought healing resources for men who carried the weight of abortion’s aftermath. What I found was disheartening: while some claimed to support men, they failed to address our unique emotional and spiritual needs.

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I realised then that men like me needed something more.

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This realisation set me on an extraordinary journey—a quest to understand post-abortion trauma in all its complexity. Through months of study, I discovered five core wounds that abortion inflicts and five principles that offer a path to healing. Yet, I also learned that men and women experience these wounds differently. Addressing men’s pain would require a wholly unique approach, something compassionate, profound, and entirely new.

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The result was The Unborn Father, a deeply empathetic guide that leads men through four transformative healing paths. Through my own journey and conversations with other men, I uncovered a simple yet profound truth: men do feel, men do grieve, and men can heal—when given the right space, language, and understanding.

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But my mission didn’t stop there. Women too suffer profoundly from abortion’s impact, and their healing journey deserves equal care and attention. This inspired The Unborn Mother, a parallel healing path for women that honours their unique experiences and emotions while guiding them toward hope and renewal.

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Both works, united by the shared principles of compassion, empathy, and grace, culminated in The Great Unborn Wall—a timeless memorial that offers a sacred space for parents to honour the lives of their unborn children. It is a place of remembrance and redemption, where grief finds solace and broken hearts are made whole.

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This nine-year journey has been one of relentless dedication, involving over 100,000 written words and countless hours of prayer, reflection, and refinement. Along the way, I gained not just new skills, but a renewed sense of purpose: to shine a light on the hidden pain of abortion and offer parents a way forward—a path to clarity, closure, and peace.

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Today, I stand as a man transformed by grace, humbled by my own failures, and determined to guide others toward healing. The Great Unborn Wall is more than a mission; it’s a movement—a call to honour the unseen, to humanise the forgotten, and to transform loss into love.

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If you’ve found yourself on this journey, know that you are not alone. Together, we can turn sorrow into strength, and through remembrance, find redemption.