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The Unborn Flames

The Four Unborn Flames are profound symbols of healing, transformation, and legacy for Unborn Mothers and Fathers.

 

These unborn flames are earned through completing each of the four healing paths and serve as enduring reminders of their courage, determination, and love. Once earned, these flames are placed on the Great Unborn Wall, representing the eternal bond between parent and child and the honour bestowed upon the child’s memory.

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Each flame carries a unique meaning, reflecting the spiritual and emotional milestones achieved on the healing journey. While the flames themselves are identical for both Unborn Mothers and Fathers, their symbolism is tailored to resonate with their distinct paths and experiences.​​​​​​​​

My Unborn Flame of Love

1. The Unborn Flame of Love: A Sacred Bond of Honour and Healing

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This unborn flame represents the unbreakable bond of love, honour, and rehumanisation. For the Unborn Mother, it is a tribute to the unique soul she carried, affirming their eternal presence through the act of naming and memorialising. For the Unborn Father, it acknowledges his role in recognising and honouring the child’s life, solidifying a connection that transcends time and loss.

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Key Symbolism:

  • Unborn Mothers: The flame embodies her nurturing spirit and the courage to rehumanise her child’s memory by naming them, recognising their biological sex, and memorialising their existence.

  • Unborn Fathers: The flame signifies his commitment to acknowledge his child’s life, ensuring their legacy is honoured and their light continues to shine.

 

Impact:

The Unborn Flame of Love invites parents to embrace the profound truth of their child’s existence, bringing clarity, comfort, and peace. It serves as a constant source of warmth, reminding them of the eternal connection they share.

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Moving Forward:

This Unborn Flame becomes a guiding light, illuminating the path ahead with warmth and remembrance. It encourages parents to carry the love they feel into every aspect of their lives, honouring their child’s legacy while finding peace and purpose in their journey.

My Unborn Flame of Truth

2. The Unborn Flame of Truth: A Testament to Courage and Faith

 

This dual unborn flame, with the Holy Bible placed between, symbolises the courage to face the truth of one’s experience and the strength found in God’s eternal story. It is a declaration of faith, life, and hope.

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Key Symbolism:

  • Unborn Mothers: The flame reflects her bravery in confronting the realities of her journey and embracing the truth of her child’s significance.

  • Unborn Fathers: The flame represents his willingness to acknowledge his role in the child’s story, guided by God’s grace to transform guilt into growth and sorrow into strength.

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Impact:

By receiving the Unborn Flame of Truth, parents affirm the reality of their experience and the transformative power of God’s love. This flame lights the path towards peace, freedom, and renewed faith.

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Moving Forward:

As the Unborn Flame of Truth burns brightly on the Great Unborn Wall, it inspires parents to live authentically, guided by the unwavering truth of God’s Word. It challenges them to share their story with courage and compassion, fostering healing for themselves and others.

My Unborn Flame of Joy

3. The Unborn Flame of Joy: A Dedication of Love and Honour

 

This unborn flame symbolises the dedication, devotion, and delight parents have shown in honouring their child’s memory. Through creative tributes and heartfelt memorialisation, they transform grief into celebration.

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Key Symbolism:

  • Unborn Mothers: The flame celebrates her acts of love and dignity in sharing her child’s legacy, inviting others to witness the beauty of their existence.

  • Unborn Fathers: The flame honours his efforts to memorialise his child through tangible expressions of love, reinforcing the significance of their shared bond.

 

Impact:

The Unborn Flame of Joy shines as a beacon of hope, reminding parents that their child’s life, though brief, is a source of joy and meaning. It symbolises growth, reconciliation, and the enduring power of love.

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Moving Forward:

This Unborn Flame encourages parents to continue sharing their child’s story with pride and joy. It underscores the importance of community and connection, inviting others to participate in the celebration of a life that will forever be cherished.

My Unborn Flame of Forgiveness

4. The Unborn Flame of Forgiveness: A Light of Redemption and Freedom

 

This unborn flame represents the forgiveness received through Jesus Christ and the freedom it brings. It embodies grace, redemption, and the healing of hearts.

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Key Symbolism:

  • Unborn Mothers: The flame signifies her acceptance of God’s mercy, releasing guilt and embracing the joy of forgiveness.

  • Unborn Fathers: The flame reflects his journey toward healing, finding peace in God’s grace and renewing his role as a father through faith and love.

 

Impact:

The Unborn Flame of Forgiveness marks the culmination of the healing journey. It is a testament to God’s promise to bring beauty from brokenness and to restore hearts through His unconditional love. This flame illuminates a path of peace, hope, and eternal connection with the child.

 

Moving Forward:

As the Unborn Flame of Forgiveness burns brightly, it inspires parents to live in the freedom of Christ’s love. It serves as a reminder that God’s grace is sufficient, His love is unending, and the bond with their child is eternal. This flame becomes a source of strength, empowering them to face the future with hope and joy.

Conclusion:

 

The Four Unborn Flames stand as powerful reminders of the transformative journey undertaken by Unborn Mothers and Fathers. Each flame represents a step forward in healing, honouring the child’s memory, and embracing God’s grace. Together, these flames form a legacy of love, courage, and faith that shines brightly on the Great Unborn Wall, inspiring others to embark on their own paths of healing and remembrance.

 

Each of the four unborn flames are not only a testament to the parent’s journey but also a beacon of hope, demonstrating the profound beauty of love, truth, atonement, and forgiveness.

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