A Timeless Memorial Journey to the Unborn and Unforgotten
The Unborn Mother
FAQ's
What is The Great Unborn Wall?
The Great Unborn Wall is a sacred space designed to honour and remember the lives of unborn children. It allows parents to recognise their child's existence, grieve their loss, and find healing through a deeply personal memorial.
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How does The Great Unborn Wall help Mothers with healing?
The Great Unborn Wall is the destination and completion of the four healing paths of The Unborn Mother.
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What are the Four Healing Paths of The Unborn Mother?
The Four Healing Paths are based on five principles: Acknowledgment (Your Unborn Child), Admission and Apology (Your Unborn Story), Atonement (Your Unborn Tribute), and Acceptance (Your Unborn Forgiveness).
How does the process work?
The process is deeply personal and takes place at your own pace. You’ll be guided and supported the entire way. By doing so, you honour your child’s life and your own journey of healing.
Do I need to be a Christian to participate in The Great Unborn Wall?
No, you do not need to be a Christian. However, the healing process is also rooted in Christian principles of love, mercy, grace, and forgiveness and is available to anyone looking to heal and find peace.
Can I include my child’s name or other details on my Great Unborn Wall?
Yes, absolutely. And you can also update and remove these details anytime you want, as often as you lile. You are encouraged to personalise your Wall as this also creates a powerful tribute to your Wall.
Will this help me with feelings of guilt or shame?
Yes, one of the goals of the path of The Unborn Mother is to provide a safe, compassionate space where you, and all other woman, can address any feelings of guilt or shame and work towards releasing them. Through the healing journey, you’ll find forgiveness and peace.
What if I haven’t fully healed from my loss?
The healing process can take time. The four healing paths of The Unborn Mother is not about rushing through your grief but allowing you to heal at your own pace. It’s designed to guide you to a place of peace, but it’s important to be patient and gentle with yourself along the way.
Can I participate if I was not the one who made the decision for the abortion?
Yes, absolutely. Whether you made the decision, were part of the decision-making process, or were not involved in the decision at all, your feelings and experiences are valid. This is about healing for you—no matter your role.
Is this only for women who have had an abortion?
No, the Four Healing Paths of The Unborn Mother is for any mother who has lost an unborn child, regardless of the circumstances. Whether through miscarriage, abortion, or other reasons, this is a place to honour your child and heal your heart.
How can I know if I’m ready to take this step?
You’ll know you’re ready when you feel a deep desire to honour your child’s life and begin your healing journey. It’s okay if you’re not ready right now—healing is a process, and there’s no timeline.
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What if I’m unsure about my role in the abortion decision?
It’s completely normal to feel uncertain. The four healing paths of the Unborn Mother are designed to help you process and understand your emotions, whether you were the one who made the decision or were affected by it. The goal is healing and peace, not judgment.
Can I include multiple children on the Great Unborn Wall if I've had more than one loss?
Yes. If you’ve experienced the loss of more than one unborn child, you can create individual Walls for each child - but you will have to go through the Unborn Mother each time in order to create and complete their own unique Wall. Every child’s life, no matter how brief, deserves to be acknowledged and honoured.
How long does the healing journey take?
Healing is personal and varies for each individual. There’s no timeline for completing the steps and paths of The Unborn Mother . You’ll go through it at your own pace, allowing the healing process to unfold naturally.
Can I revisit my Great Unborn Wall after I’ve completed the 4 paths?
Yes. Your Wall will always there for you to return to whenever you need. Whether you want to add more to your Wall, reflect on your healing journey, or celebrate and commemorate such a beautiful achievement, the Great Unborn Wall will always remain a sacred space for you.
What if I feel like I don’t deserve forgiveness?
It’s normal to struggle with feelings of unworthiness, but God’s grace and forgiveness are offered freely, no matter what. Healing begins when you accept that forgiveness, even if you don’t feel you deserve it.
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What if I’ve already been through therapy or counselling—how is the Great Unborn Wall different?
The Great Unborn Wall is unique because it combines emotional healing with a tangible, personal tribute to your unborn child. While therapy can help with emotional processing, the Great Unborn Wall offers a specific, focused way to honour and remember your child, creating a space for both personal reflection and deep emotional connection.
What if I’m not ready to publicly acknowledge my loss?
The Path of The Unborn Mother is a personal and private journey, and you have full control over how much you share. Whether you choose to keep your thoughts and feelings private or placed them on your wall as a tribute, the process is entirely about your healing. You can take it at your own pace, and there’s no rush to share more than you’re comfortable with.
What if I feel overwhelmed or stuck during the healing process?
It’s completely okay to feel overwhelmed or stuck—healing is a process, and it’s different for everyone. The Unborn Mother provides resources, online chat support, and prayer to guide you through difficult moments. You’re not alone in this journey, and it’s okay to take a break and return when you feel ready.
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Can I view, edit, add, or delete the information I enter in my Great Unborn Wall later?
Yes, absolutely. Once you’ve completed all four healing paths, you’ll have access to a control panel where you can revisit, edit, and update any part of your Great Unborn Wall. This ensures that your tribute remains as personal and meaningful as you wish, and allows for ongoing reflection and healing as you continue your journey.
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How much does this service cost?
$99 Australian Dollars - One Time Payment for Life Time Membership. No Hidden Fees. No Contracts.
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Can I cancel at any stage?
Yes, of course you can. If you need to pause or cancel your journey at any point, simply go to your Account and Profile Settings, where you’ll have the option to manage your preferences. The process is entirely flexible, and you can choose to stop or resume at any time, based on where you are in your healing journey. Your healing journey is yours to navigate, at your own pace.​